3 great articles that widened my perspective and grew my empathy
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We’re coming up on the ninth year of this newsletter. It’s an honor, week after week, to put in front of you what I think are the best articles on race, education, and culture. Along the way, I get to learn a ton. Even if the topic of an article is something I know a little bit about — let’s say teaching — I go in curious and find a morsel of newness. But sometimes, like this week, I’m blown away with how little I know. Doing this newsletter puts me in contact with new experiences and new perspectives that grow my empathy. I hope this week’s articles might do the same for you. They’re about:
women’s land communities and lesbian separatist collectives in Oregon
what it feels like to give birth at age 45
a kissing game in 1958 in Monroe, North Carolina
Depending on your interest and time, I’d love it if you read one (or three) of these pieces and then shared your thoughts about them in the comments. Please enjoy!
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1️⃣ Women’s Land
In southern Oregon, in between Grants Pass and Roseburg, there’s a 100-mile stretch where in the 1970s, groups of lesbian women, who called themselves landdykes, built intentional communities in order to fight against the heterosexism of second-wave feminism and to live free from the male gaze.
In this well-written article, Bethany Kaylor travels to Fly Away Home during the fall Equinox to spend time with the women who live there. They’re mostly in their 70s and 80s now. They explain how they came to the land, how liberating it was, how they shed their birth names and governed by consensus.
But they also acknowledge that lesbian collectives are no longer as popular as they used to be. Younger women find them too white. There’s no wi-fi. There’s concern that the lands promote a sense of manifest destiny. Worst of all is a charge that the communities are transphobic.
But there’s something that keeps Ms. Kaylor going back, that makes her friends ask her why she’s obsessed with these lands. There are many reasons, she writes:
Time is different on women’s land. Decades stretch and fold into each other: the trees grow higher, the women older, their gardens wilder. Years are measured by lovers and breakups, the bounty of harvests, the slow construction of yurts and cabins, children and grandchildren.
By Bethany Kaylor • Sunday Long Read • 21 min
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2️⃣ I Gave Birth at 45
“Giving birth at 45 is rolling the dice,” writes Grace Glassman in this fast-paced, frightening first-person account of her birth. After all, Dr. Glassman makes sure to mention, if you’re a woman, and you’re 35 years or older, you’ve reached “advanced maternal age,” with a much higher chance of dying during childbirth. It doesn’t help that the United States has the highest maternal mortality rate among developed countries.
What begins as a routine C-section slowly changes after Dr. Glassman’s nurse notices the bleeding. Then comes a blood pressure reading of 63/17. Then come the blood transfusions, then pressors, then disseminated intravascular coagulation, then finally hemorrhagic shock.
“In medicine,” Dr. Glassman writes, “it can be hard to recognize the instant when a patient has crossed the line from stable to unstable, or from unstable to gracing death’s door, because there are no clear lines.”
By Grace Glassman • Slate • 20 mins
3️⃣ The Kiss
One afternoon in October 1958 in Monroe, North Carolina, three children were playing a kissing game. One was Sissy Sutton, a 7-year-old white girl. The other two were James Hanover Thompson, a 9-year-old Black boy; and his friend David Fuzzy Simpson, an 8-year-old Black boy. Sissy kissed David on the cheek. Then she kissed James. Then the children headed home.
You may not want to read what happened next. Certainly the point of Article Club is not to (re)traumatize you. But this is an important story I didn’t know about, despite my college history degree and my many years of teaching U.S. History. Given that we have states banning the teaching of full and truthful representations of our nation’s past, I do recommend this piece, especially to social studies teachers.
By Sara Rimer • Equal Justice Initiative • 9 mins
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