#370: Saying Goodbye To My Chest

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This week I have three great articles for you. They’re about top surgery, school board shenanigans, and the downfall of college. If you have time to read just one piece, make it “Saying Goodbye To My Chest,” by Naomi Gordon-Loebl. In particular I recommend it if you identify as cisgender or have not had much experience with trans people or trans issues. As we’ve established over and over again, reading is never enough when we’re on a journey of learning and understanding. But it’s a good step toward empathy.

The other articles are great, too — especially if you’re a parent or an educator and you care about the future of public schools and higher education. Please enjoy, and I hope you have a great weekend coming up.

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1️⃣ Saying Goodbye To My Chest

Naomi Gordon-Loebl put on a binder for the first time when she was 14 years old. She liked how the white T-shirt fell against her flat chest. She loved the way she looked and felt. But only seven months ago, fully 20 years later, did Ms. Gordon-Loebl make the appointment for her top surgery. She explains:

I never hated my chest. It’s a perfectly fine chest; a good one, and I’m fond of it, even. It’s been with me for some 21 years. Everywhere my body has traveled, it has come along. Everything I have done, it has done too. It has been a part of me, and in some ways, it always will be. It needs to go now, not because it is wrong, or something worth despising, but simply because it is standing in the way of a life I can no longer postpone.

In this beautifully written account, Ms. Gordon-Loebl shares her journey and explains how she has felt being trans. It’s like “moving through a world where there are invisible rules” that she is always breaking. She writes about washing her hands quickly in the bathroom, getting patted down in the airport security line, and wanting desperately to sleep shirtless. “Sometimes I find myself idly imagining that what I am doing is returning my body to its rightful state,” she writes. (18 min)

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2️⃣ The Right-Wing Mothers Fuelling The School-Board Wars

You all know about the raucous school board meetings in which parents yell about Critical Race Theory, mask mandates, and books with gay and trans characters. But did you know about Moms for Liberty, the nonprofit organization behind all the fuss? I didn’t think I would appreciate this article, but once I met Robin Steenman, who led an effort in Tennessee claiming that teachers shouldn’t tell their students that male seahorses give birth (they do), I was hooked. The reason? Ms. Steenman doesn’t have kids in the district she despises. Turns out, neither do many of the moms. That doesn’t matter, though. The point is to infiltrate public schools as “joyful warriors.” Author Paige Williams writes, “Right-wing attacks on school boards are less about changing curricula than about undermining the entire public-school system, in the hope of privatizing education.” (40 min)

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3️⃣ How Higher Education Lost Its Shine

Back in the day, it was, Go to the best college you get into. Then it was, Go to the college that’s the best match for you – and be sure you can pay for it. Now, neither of those is true. More and more high school seniors are openly questioning the value of college, and fewer and fewer are attending. Inflation, rising college prices, and the pandemic have certainly contributed to the downturn, but the trend began in 2016, when 70 percent of graduates enrolled in college, an all-time high. By 2020, though, the rate had plummeted to 63 percent. This clearly written article explores the reasons young people are no longer as attracted to college as they used to be. The statistics might say that a college degree leads to better economic and health outcomes. But is it worth the money and stress? And isn’t the job at the local Volkswagen factory (or making TikTok videos) the safer way to go? (14 min)

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