#254: Nice White Parents

We’re almost in August, loyal readers, which means that school’s around the corner again. How did that happen? I don’t know about you, but for me, this year’s version of summer was the shortest in recorded history. For all you educators out there, I wish you every morsel of rest (and reading!) before heading back.

Leading this week’s issue is the first episode of “Nice White Parents,” the much-hyped podcast by Serial Productions that dropped this morning. I got up early to take a listen and recommend the piece to white parents and white educators.

If listening isn’t your thing, the other three pieces in today’s issue are also worth your attention. They explore the common theme of community — who’s in vs. who’s out, and in the case of John Lewis, how to make our community a better one. Please enjoy them and let me know your thoughts!

+ Tonight at 5 pm PT, loyal reader Telannia (please see her photo and bio below) and I are facilitating a discussion on “What Is Owed,” the brilliant article on reparations by Nikole Hannah-Jones. If you’ve read the piece and want to talk about it, hit reply, and I’ll send you the Zoom link. We’re both looking forward to a thoughtful conversation. Hope you’ll make it!

Nice White Parents

I still remember a Back to School Night in San Francisco, early in my teaching career, when I thought it would be a good idea, after concluding my presentation, to open the floor for questions. In a room of 40 parents, all but two Black or Brown, a white woman in the back of the room raised her hand, looked around and then at me, and asked, “What are you going to do to help my child in this classroom?”

Hosted by the outstanding Chana Joffe-Walt, “Nice White Parents” explores how liberal white parents may mean well but ultimately wield their power toward selfish ends, taking over schools, hoarding resources for their children, and exacerbating inequities.

“When we look for what’s broken, for how our schools are failing, we focus on who they’re failing — poor kids, Black kids, and Brown kids. We ask, ‘Why aren’t they performing better? Why aren’t they achieving more?’ Those are not the right questions. There’s a powerful force that is shaping our public schools — arguably, the most powerful force. It’s there even when we pretend not to notice it. If you want to understand why our schools aren’t better, that’s where you have to look. You have to look at white parents.” (62 min)

+ Also by Ms. Joffe-Walt: “LaDonna” and “The Problem We All Live With.”

Together, You Can Redeem The Soul Of Our Nation

John Lewis: “Emmett Till was my George Floyd. He was my Rayshard Brooks, Sandra Bland, and Breonna Taylor. He was 14 when he was killed, and I was only 15 years old at the time. I will never ever forget the moment when it became so clear that he could easily have been me.

When historians pick up their pens to write the story of the 21st century, let them say that it was your generation who laid down the heavy burdens of hate at last and that peace finally triumphed over violence, aggression, and war. So I say to you, walk with the wind, brothers and sisters, and let the spirit of peace and the power of everlasting love be your guide.” (4 min)

After The Reading

After a poetry reading, Gary Jackson sips wine and tries to make small talk with two women eager to tell him that racial relations have improved and how “it doesn’t matter what color anyone is as long as you’re willing to listen.” Sensing awkwardness in the conversation, a third woman saves the day, steering the conversation back to the art and reminding Mr. Jackson that “everything’s always been this awful, but it’s getting better.” (2 min)

Disney World During The Pandemic Is Extremely Weird

“I should admit,” Graeme Wood writes, “that a Disney vacation, even in pre-coronavirus conditions, sounds to me like the most elaborate way to have a miserable time yet invented by humankind.” But in this hilarious, well-written article, Mr. Wood discovers that the Magic Kingdom, despite its problems, serves as a benevolent authoritarian regime, satisfying its obedient subjects, who don’t mind the constant surveillance and the $11 corn dogs. Maybe this is better governance than what’s outside Disney’s walls? (26 min)

+ Reader Annotations: Several of you listened to last week’s outstanding podcast with Bryan Stevenson. (Thank you.) Here’s what loyal reader Lisa had to say:

Stevenson’s interview was profound. I’ve had a Post-It on my monitor all summer that says “liberation.” It is the filter through which I move my decisions and thoughts. They are either liberating me and others or they are not. Period. But the most moving idea in the podcast was the imperative of truth telling. There is no beauty, no liberation, no healing without it.

Thank you very much, Lisa, for your thoughtful contribution. Loyal readers, if an article in this newsletter moves you, by all means, hit reply and let me know.

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#253: An American Founder

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John Lewis died this week. He’s an inspiration to me not only because of his courage but also because of his clarity of purpose. “Freedom is not a state; it is an act,” he said. “It is not some enchanted garden perched high on a distant plateau where we can finally sit down and rest. Freedom is the continuous action we all must take.” Most of all, I’m moved by his unwavering hopefulness and his pride in young Black Lives Matter protesters, who he said “are going to help redeem the soul of America.” This week’s lead article is a tribute to Mr. Lewis. Please read it if you can.

The other three pieces in today’s issue — about how America can heal from its racism, whether antiracism trainings are effective, and whether the left’s cancel culture prevents open discourse — are also thought provoking and worth your time. Go ahead: Read (or listen to!) one or more of them, and then share with me your thoughts.

+ Loyal reader Telannia and I want to invite you to a discussion of “What Is Owed,” by Nikole Hannah-Jones, next Thursday, July 30, 5-6 pm PT. If you’re interested, hit reply, let me know you’re in, and I’ll give you more details, including the Zoom link and how to prepare. Telannia and I are looking forward to seeing you there for a thoughtful discussion of American history and the role of reparations to achieve true justice and equality.

John Lewis Was An American Founder

Many of us think of John Lewis and C. T. Vivian and other civil rights leaders as champions for justice and equality for oppressed and marginalized Americans. But writer Adam Serwer makes things plain: Without Mr. Lewis and his peers, the United States would still be a white republic, designed by law and violence to disenfranchise and subjugate Black people.

In this way, Mr. Serwer writes, we should consider Mr. Lewis and Mr. Vivian as founders of the Third American Republic, the first true attempt to apply the promises of the Declaration of Independence in order to build an interracial democracy.

Mr. Lewis’s words at the March on Washington ring true now as they did back in 1963. “We do not want our freedom gradually, but we want to be free now! We are tired. We are tired of being beaten by policemen. We are tired of seeing our people locked up in jail over and over again. And then you holler, ‘Be patient.’ How long can we be patient? We want our freedom and we want it now.” (8 min)

How American Can Heal: Bryan Stevenson on The Ezra Klein Show

In case you’re a new subscriber, yes, I’m a huge fan of Bryan Stevenson, and yes, Just Mercy should be required reading (and viewing) for all Americans. In this interview, Mr. Stevenson argues that the only way we as Americans can cleanse ourselves of the legacy of slavery is to tell the complete truth and to engage in deep reconciliation. Part of that process, he says, is to dismantle dishonorable monuments and to defund the police. (81 min)

+ If you listen to the whole piece, please reply and let me know which part you found most inspiring.

Does Antiracism Training Work?

Now that every white person has read Robin DiAngelo’s White Fragility and attended Glenn Singleton’s Courageous Conversation training, racism is on a precipitous decline, right? Not according to Harvard sociologist Frank Dobbin, who argues that antiracist workshops can backfire, activating stereotypes, re-traumatizing people of color, and doing little to advance equity. One reason for their failure, according to Mr. Singleton: They’re not aggressive enough. (38 min)

+ For a nuanced critique of Ms. DiAngelo’s work, read “The Limits Of White Fragility,” by Lauren Michele Jackson, featured in Issue #209.

Cancel Culture And The Willful Blindness of Reactionary Liberalism

I grew up believing in free speech, the marketplace of ideas, and the promise of liberalism. But the recent complaints about cancel culture do not adequately acknowledge that current notions of open debate do not allow all voices to participate equally. In this well-written article, Osita Nwanevu makes the case that conservatives who call progressives illiberal may not appreciate the associative freedom of groups to unite to promote individual rights. Or maybe it’s just that they don’t want to face the consequences of their speech. (23 min)

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#252: The Test of Their Lives

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Hi loyal readers, and thank you for opening today’s issue of The Highlighter. Unless you live off the grid, which lately has become more appealing to me, you couldn’t escape news stories this week debating whether teachers should return to school next month. It’s a fair and important question. But I noticed fewer stories in my feed that included the experiences of students. This week’s lead article, “The Test Of Their Lives,” tells the story of four San Francisco high school students and how they navigated distance learning in the Spring. No, the piece won’t magically give us the answers to our current questions. But it might offer perspective and help to keep young people at the center as we make key decisions.

Also in this week’s issue, you’ll find articles on the dangers of facial recognition technology and the benefits of having authentic conversations with voters. And if you happen to be in the mood for listening over reading, give the “This Land” podcast a chance. I think you’ll appreciate it.

+ I’d love to hear from you — especially if we’ve never met or you’ve never shared your thoughts before. If an article or podcast resonated with you, please let me know. All you need to do is hit reply!

The Test Of Their Lives

As Los Angeles, Houston, and other major districts have decided to begin the school year in distance learning, this touching profile of four students at Burton High School in San Francisco and their quest last Spring to pass the AP World History examination reminded me of the resilience of young people and the massive challenges that they face. On what motivates him to persist, student Jonathan Tran says, “I want my baby sister to grow up without any stress, without having to move because we’re pretty close to being homeless — anything like that, I want to shield her from.”

Without treading too far down the saviorism path, education reporter Laura Meckler credits teacher Eirik Nielsen’s resolve as well. He presents rigorous lessons, maintains high expectations, and doesn’t let distance learning get in the way of his commitment to students. (23 min)

Defund Facial Recognition Now

Malkia Devich-Cyril: “Black faces have long been considered a threat by American law enforcement. It’s discomforting, even dystopian, to think that when I step out of my home to exercise my constitutional right to protest, I will encounter a system that seems hell-bent on ending my life. My Black face can be identified, verified, and tracked without my consent or knowledge. My mother survived the surveillance of the FBI’s counterintelligence program as a civil-rights activist in the 1960s. As a second-generation Black activist, I’m tired of being spied on by the police.” (17 min)

This Land

For more than a year, this podcast series had languished in my queue, beckoning me to listen. But last week’s landmark Supreme Court decision, McGirt v. Oklahoma, finally got me unstuck, and I immediately binge-listened its eight episodes. What seems at first glance a simple story of a murder case becomes an inquiry into the long-standing treaty rights of five Native American tribes — and nearly half of Oklahoma. Host Rebecca Nagle, a citizen of Cherokee Nation, does a great job telling the story. (~240 min)

The Only Way To Change A Voter’s Mind

Most political scientists agree that the way to win elections is by mobilizing your base. There’s no point in trying to woo swing voters, because for the most part, nobody actually switches sides. But Aaron Vasquez and other advocates of “deep canvassing” believe that listening to people (without judgment) and telling personal and vulnerable stories (skip the facts, please) can make a difference, especially in local elections, and particularly in rural environments. (16 min)

+ What do you think? Is this method better than registering new voters and urging them to the polls?

+ Reader Annotations: VIP member Phoebe was pleased that Viet Thanh Nguyen’s essay led last week’s newsletter and shared these thoughts:

Asian Americans usually don’t figure into the greater discussion of race in America. As an Asian American, I always struggle with finding my place in the race discussion, and it has been particularly difficult this year. First came the increasingly overt anti-Asian sentiment that was especially unleashed by Covid, and then the complicated jumble of feelings about where I fit into the discussion of racism in America after George Floyd was killed. Viet Thanh Nguyen’s article was the best articulation that I’ve read about those complicated feelings. Thanks for highlighting it!

Thank you for sharing your reflection, Phoebe. Loyal readers, if an article this week resonated with you, go ahead, please tell me about it. All you need to do is hit reply!

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#251: The Model Minority Myth Hurts Us All

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For the third week in a row, last week’s issue was the most popular in The Highlighter’s history, thanks to your strong readership. Thank you for opening the newsletter every week and trusting me to suggest thought-provoking articles to read.

Today’s selections are definitely worth your time and attention. In this week’s lead article, author Viet Thanh Nguyen argues that the model minority myth hurts not only Asian Americans but everyone. The next two pieces — about the killing of Ahmaud Arbery and a protest in Bethel, Ohio — offer opposing perspectives of the Black Lives Matter movement. Finally, a feature on dollar stores reminds us what happens when capitalism intersects with race and poverty. My hope is that you’ll read at least one article this week and then share with me your thoughts.

+ This month’s Article Club selection is “Jerry and Marge Go Large,” one of the best articles of 2018. Writer Jason Fagone captures the joy and spirit of two savvy retirees as they game the lottery to win millions. You can find out more info and sign up here.

The Model Minority Myth Hurts Us All

In this nuanced, thought-provoking essay, Pulitzer Prize-winning author Viet Thanh Nguyen reflects on being Asian American in the time of coronavirus and nationwide protests against police brutality. The model minority myth traps Asian Americans into pursuing the American Dream, and thereby aligning with white supremacy culture, while remaining inextricably foreign and vulnerable to xenophobia. “Throughout Asian-American history,” Mr. Nguyen writes, Asian immigrants and their descendants have been offered the opportunity by both Black people and white people to choose sides in the Black-white racial divide, and we have far too often chosen the white side.”

Still, Mr. Nguyen acknowledges the racism and violence against Asian Americans, how capitalism pits Asian Americans of different ethnicities against each other, how immigration policies targeted and discriminated against Asians, and how the wars of American imperialism resulted in devastation. If seeking the American Dream means being seen as the other, and reaching it means seeing fellow Americans as the other, then maybe it’s not a dream worth chasing in the first place. (25 min)

+ Thank you to VIP member Phoebe for suggesting this article. Do you have a great article for our reading community? Send it my way!

Ahmaud Arbery Will Not Be Erased

David Dennis Jr.: “Black people disappear in America. This fact is woven into the fabric of our country. Parents are separated from their children at slave auctions, never to be seen by them again. A loved one is here one day and turns up in the Jim Crow woods the next, dangling from trees under the cover of nightfall and inhumanity. Ahmaud Arbery left his house on February 23 to go for a run, as the 25-year-old former high school football star was known to do. In the middle of that run, he became one of those bodies. Ahmaud was in the middle-class Satilla Shores neighborhood, on a winding road under the cover of Spanish moss that hung from trees like history. It’s the type of road Black bodies disappear into.” (19 min)

In case you haven’t seen it yet, here’s Frederick Douglass’s famous speech, “What To The Slave Is The Fourth Of July?” read by his descendants. It’s powerful. (7 min)

You Can’t Bring This Into Our Town: How A BLM Protest In Ohio Turned Ugly

Everyone in the village of Bethel, Ohio, loves second grade teacher Lois Dennis. That is, they loved her — until she participated in a Black Lives Matter demonstration with her daughter last month. The town of 2,800 mostly white residents turned on her, claiming that Bethel isn’t racist and doesn’t need to examine its values. For this working-class, Trump-voting community, white privilege doesn’t exist and BLM amounts to reverse racism. (26 min)

+ Read more by Anne Helen Petersen on millennial burnout, college debt, and farmhouse-chic.

The True Cost Of Dollar Stores

Discount stores are thriving, particularly in poor areas, which Walmart and Target won’t serve. But this outstanding piece by Alec MacGillis explains how dollar stores contribute to economic distress rather than mitigating it, especially in working-class Black communities. Keeping prices down means poor working conditions, low wages, and worst of all, high rates of robbery and murder. When you go to work, Jolanda Woods says, you shouldn’t have to risk your life. (28 min)

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#250: My Body Is A Confederate Monument

Just like that, we’ve reached the 250th issue of The Highlighter. Loyal readers, thank you for your support and your thoughtful contributions to our reading community. Together we’ve built something meaningful, don’t you think?

Last week’s issue broke another reading record. The lead article, “What Is Owed,” got shared hundreds of times and led many of you to reach out to brainstorm possible action steps.

This week’s issue is another strong one. All four articles are worthy of your attention and reflection, but the first two are phenomenal. Today’s lead essay, “My Body Is A Confederate Monument,” by Caroline Randall Williams, is a masterpiece. The second, “America’s Enduring Caste System,” by Isabel Wilkerson, is also beautifully written, offering a powerful and possibly different way for people to understand anti-Blackness and systemic racism.

Please get into these and the other two articles and let me know what you think. Onward to another 250 issues!

My Body Is A Confederate Monument

Caroline Randall Williams: “I have rape-colored skin. My light-brown-blackness is a living testament to the rules, the practices, the causes of the Old South. If there are those who want to remember the legacy of the Confederacy, if they want monuments, well, then, my body is a monument. My skin is a monument.” (5 min)

America’s Enduring Caste System

Isabel Wilkerson: “Caste is the granting or withholding of respect, status, honor, attention, privileges, resources, benefit of the doubt and human kindness to someone on the basis of their perceived rank or standing in the hierarchy. Caste is insidious and therefore powerful because it is not hatred; it is not necessarily personal. It is the worn grooves of comforting routines and unthinking expectations, patterns of a social order that have been in place for so long that it looks like the natural order of things. Caste, along with its faithful servant race, is an X-factor in most any American equation, and any answer one might ever come up with to address our current challenges is flawed without it.” (52 min)

+ Ms. Wilkerson is the recipient of the Pulitzer Prize and author of one of my favorite books, The Warmth of Other Suns.

The Long Walk

When the Hillsboro City School District in Ohio refused to integrate after the Brown v. Board of Education decision, Gertrude Clemons, Imogene Curtis, and other Black mothers walked their children every morning to the city’s better-resourced elementary schools. Day after day, school officials turned them away. But eighteen months and several court cases later, the group of mothers triumphed, when the district relented to the pressure. “They taught their children to keep going,” Sarah Stankorb writes. “They taught them to know when the walk is not yet done.” (51 min)

When Black People Are In Pain, White People Just Join Book Clubs

Tre Johnson: “When things get real — really murderous, really tragic, really violent or aggressive — my white, liberal, educated friends already know what to do. What they do is read. And talk about their reading. What they do is listen. And talk about how they listened. What they do is never enough. This isn’t the time to circle up with other white people and discuss black pain in the abstract; it’s the time to acknowledge and examine the pain they’ve personally caused.” (7 min)

+ Reader Annotations: I’m really grateful for our strong and thoughtful reading community. I hope you are, too. But what’s the point of all this reading in the first place? Several of you have reached out the past two weeks and shared your thoughts. Here is loyal reader Lynn and her contribution:

We read so we can act in an effective way. Reading gets a bad rap because people end there, if they even got there in the first place. But it doesn’t end there. Reading is not just an exercise for the brain. It should hit our hearts and bodies, if we let reading do so.

Thank you, Lynn, and may the reading we choose to do this week “hit our hearts and bodies” so that we may act and be better.

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